I didn’t realize I was being judgmental until this…

I learned a valuable lesson I want to share with you. Until now, I have lived by the rule  “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”

That feels good and true, but what if there is an even better way? Because the fact is, people cannot grow, improve or change if they are aware that what they are saying or doing is offending or driving you away.

I realized I was simply being a judgmental people pleaser by keeping my mouth shut.

What about you? How do you handle such situations? I would love to hear your trials, successes and discoveries.

Here’s to being empowered and creating a life you love,

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